Manush ekbar e prem a pore" .... Do yu think that is true ?

Manush ekbar e prem a pore / 1st love er feelings r kokhonoi pawa jay na”

... ei dhoroner kotha ami je kotobar shunechi bolar na..... Amar kache etto ajob lage ..... keno amnush keno ekbar e prem a porte parbe .. keno bar bar noy ... eta ki built in naki !!!

je valobashte jane she bar bar eki vabe valobashbe...... r je prosharito vabe chinta korte pare na she konobar e hoyto pare na.....manusher hridoya allah valobasha ba felings er kono limit dey ni je ta shesh hoya jabe ....thats it...

ummmmm.. aparajita apu... ami mone koriii

keo jodi kaoke seriously love kore.... tao jodi oi person ke life-e na pai tahole tar jonno love-ek bar-e..

but keo jodi love-e seriously na nei tahole lvoe tar jonno hajar bar-o kom.........

but TRUE LOVE ekbar-e hoi.. eta ami mone kori...... ami nije obosho kori nai.. but friend der korte deksi.. r khub kach theke deksi tai bolte partesi..!

ami aparajita api er sate ekmot. first love bole kisu nailove always e ekrokom. first love a amra jamon feel kori 2nd love ao shei feelings.manush ki kokhono chinta kore love korte pare naki?j akhon kom love korbo karon ami age ekjon k love korsi ......lolz........never
ovI ai puchhi frnd der dekso love korte but trao to puchhi .oder boro hote deo den dekho

Hmmm ... 1st love hoitese just starting ... tar mane to ei na je ei 1st love er moto feeling r thakbe nah ... itz totally wrong ... evan amar mot e ... 1st love theke er pore aro besi feeling thake ... karon love jinish ta ki eta to age boja ucit ...

I think OvI is right...

things get better and better..cause we learn from our experiences..

OvI Ami tomak support kori ... tumi ja bolecho thik bolecho ... but manush er mind and time and life ei tin tai theme thake nah ... Suppose tumi kaw k love koro .. true love ... tarpor o He/She rejected u ... tar mane to ei na tomar life ... tomar mind or jonno theme thakbe ... no eta possible nah ... obossoi tumi tarpor aro oneker sathe mishbe ... oneker sathe porichoy hobe ... and obossoi tomar abar notun kore love hote pare ... and eta joruri nah je 2nd or 3rd love true hobe nah ... keno tumi jodi tomar new life partner er sathe true thako ... if u really love him/her ... tahole keno eta true love hobe nah ... and love measure korer kono mechine nai je kew bolte parbe ... 1st e sob cheye besi vari ... 2nd or 3rd love er weight kom ... true thakle ... really love korle obossoi true love hobe ... and kaw ke love korle ... eta every moment e barte thake ... i guess ami amar kotha thik moto express korte perechi

amer kisu kotha ase.....


ami mone kori Honest / True Love manush ekber e korte pare.....khetro bishesh e hoito 2 ber...


yes !! je pare se ber ber e Love korte pare but tokhon take PLAYBOY / PLAYGIRL bola hoi.....


ekta manush ek jon er sathe mon dewa-newa korlo , onek dur agalo , then aber new karo sathe same kaz e korlo , and 2/3 jon kei se bollo I Love You !! tahole ei khane Honesty kothai ??


manush koikber e prem e porte pare..... prem korer age ekjon manush er onek kei valo lagte pare but 100% real Love amer mone hoi manush ekber e korte pare....


accidentally hoito karo life theke ekta manush minus hoea jete pare , then hoito onno ekta manush keo se Love korte pare onek beshi.....tao mene nilam Love 2 ber hoease.....


but ei rokom case chara kao jodi ber ber love kore / prem e pore then oita kono vabei true love na...

hmm few questions..

what is real love? i mean how do u measure it.. can someone give me a scale?

i think when u start to measure ur love by true/real and not-true or not tht emotional.. thts when u begin to cheat urself.. or the girl/guy u r with.. so the problem is in u.

everyone of us is obsessed with our first love.. i mean come on, ITS OUR FIRSTTTTTTT.. it has to be important, doesnt mean its the real love or the true love.. i mean how do u know? it can be tht avg. love .. but as it is the first.. it stays in our mind forever.. thts why its so precious..

i think ppls only cheat themselves when they brag about their first love was the real and true love and they cant love anymore.. again q. how do u know if u never try. u r cheating urself and may be hurting another person who is waiting for u to get over ur past relationship.

i am not asking ppls to fall in love over and over again... thts BAAAD... but pls dont be a fool thinking u have loved once.. and u cant do tht.. can u only cry once in ur life and never cry again? can u only get angry once and never get angry again? its our emotions we cant control..

i am not asking to fall in love just after the day u broke up.. take some time.. 6 months or so or may be more.. suit urself.. think clearly.. this time use ur brains not ur heart.. think wht u should do.. do u know what i think? MOVE ON... may be the guy/girl who was with u and still with u to help u get over ur love is waiting for u... ask him... in one of my post i said.. love can never be wrong.. but the person u love can be.. we mix these two all the time.. i think the person who waited for u tht long, loves u a lot, try loving him/her.. i think one day u will love him/her more than u used to love ur ex.. its just an emotion tht we learn to take control over time.. we harvest it over time..we learn to love more dearly in time.. more passionately..

btw in my post i didnt say for once tht u should love 2/3 persons at the same time.. i said only if love dies.. frm any end.. dont drag it.. it only makes the relationship bitter..

so actually its ur choice.. after all its ur life and u may have different views than mine..

let the debate continue..

yes yes yes i m agree wid jubair.we r falling in love dat doesm't measn every day we r falling.if our first love doesn't work out n after a while we fall in love wid some one else the guy or da gal loves us a lot but we still think abt dat love. is it right?r n't we cheating dat guy or gal?we r making relation by ourselves n we r da one who is thinking "no i can't love like b4 caz i hav loved some one".so guys i m not saying dat fall in love every day n we hav to take time to understand some one to make our life partner which is very important other wise a wrong decision can ruin our life