Love or Arrange

bubla bro. tomar shudhu akta kothai ami akmot holam na. arrange biete expectection thake thiki but a fear is also there in mind that "will my partner fullfill my expection?". so every one had the mentallityto adjust if there is something wrong.but in love marrige expection is more as every one in love try to show his best when they r together. but life is not just a couple of hour. marrige contains near about 30-40 years.
i may be wrong cause i have seen from one side. but i have seen people who were in love. not good experience.

dip bhaya,
adjustment je sudhu arrange marrage e korte hoi ta noi. Love er khetre o korte hoi. hoito biye er onek agei ta korte hoi but korte hoi karon emon manus tumi pabena je sob khetre thik tumi ja chao tai hobe. so love er khetre o dhire dhire ei adjustment hoye jay.
Hoito pratham jakhan tumi preme pori takhan tomar sei bhalo lagata tomar chokhe pore na, hoito ki<censored><censored><censored><censored><censore d>n pore chokhe pore. kintu bhalobasa thekei, hoi tomar sei monda laga ta bhalo laga e poribartan hoye jay ba tomar partner jakhan bujhte pare je seta tomar pochanda noi takhan change kore nei.
jemon, premer age amar short hight r slim meye ke beshi bhalo lagto. But amar gf short hight noi r khub ekta slim o noi. ekhon amar sei pochanda ta change hoye geche, ekhon mone hoi je shub slim er theke eitai amar beshi pachanda.
so adjustment hoyei thake ta love marrage e hok ba arrange marrage.
er pore asi expectation er kothaye. tumi jakhan kono manus ke onek din dhore cheno r take rondhe rondhe cheno takhan tumi jene jao je tar dour koto dur. sekhetre over expection astei pare na. Ha, u expect more je se tomake beshi bujhbe jeta arrage marrage e kam expect koro. but beshirbhag khetre ei expectation o puran hoye jay. karon bojha pora ta onek din ager thekei hoye jay. r jakhan bojha pora beshi thake takhan tumi khub taratari bujhte paro je se tomar kono babohare aghat peyeche and tumi tar moner kasto dur karte paro.
u said rightly that, life is not a couple of our. but marrage contains near abt 30-40 years. Kintu ami etake ektu onno rakam bhabe dekhi. Marrage life holo ei 30-40 year er prottekta single muhurta, single ghonta. choto choto muhurto, choto choto chaya paya, choto choto bhalo laga r choto choto bhalobasa. Life ei choto khato gulor samasti.

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