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What can you do to prevent heartbreak in your relationship with your significant other? | |||||||||||||||||||
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| if u wanna prevent 100%, then don't get in a relationship...simple as that... KLANTI AMAR KHOMA KORO PROBHU | |||||||||||||||||||
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| That's hard to do really when you're already in one. | |||||||||||||||||||
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| then question is whose heart is to be prevented from breaking? urs or hers? KLANTI AMAR KHOMA KORO PROBHU | |||||||||||||||||||
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mina (January 8th, 2008) | ||
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| Mine. I'd never break hers. | |||||||||||||||||||
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| realtionship means compromise...and if you compromise that wud prevent heartbreak in many cases. (i think) তাই রিমঝীম সে কেঁদে চলে, আপন সুরে আপন তালে সেই বৃষ্টি আজ কাঁদায় আমাকে, জাগিয়ে তুলে সে স্মৃতিটাকে কোনো একদিন তুমি কেঁদেছিলে, এই আমার দুটি হাত ধরে বলেছিলে কভু দূরে না হাড়াতে, অথচ কখন যেন নিজে হারালে আমায় একা ফেলে, তাই কেঁদে চলে বৃষ্টি আপন সুরে, আপন তালে, আপন সুরে... | |||||||||||||||||||||
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| Mina, I wish I knew what you were talking about. See the thing is I have had a past relationship where I was deeply attached to a person whom I loved very much of course. She ended it because she wasn't in love with me any more. I still don't know how you could love someone and just stop. Obviously, the days, weeks, and months that followed were terrible in so many ways for me and I just don't want that same pain again. A year onwards, I am with a person who loves me very much (I am sure she does). And I love her back more. But the fact of the matter is, this stage is identical to my earlier relationship with my ex (towards the beginning). She also loved me very much. And I just don't want to have my heart broken again. Is there anyway you can be not too emotionally involved so that you don't have your heart broken quite as badly if your significant other ends it with you? Or maybe you have suggestions of your own? | |||||||||||||||||||
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| Tanna, je jete chai take jete deya uchit.....shei kokhono tomar jonno chilona bolei chole geche. bhalobashar manush chole gele obosshoi heratbreak hobe. ekhon mepe mepe to r bhalobasha jai na taina? tumi ujar kore bhalobasho bole koshto pau. koshto na pauar jonno amar mote duto option....kauke bhalo na basha or bhalobashle ujar kore na basha....dutor ekta ki shombhob? ami to parbona  তাই রিমঝীম সে কেঁদে চলে, আপন সুরে আপন তালে সেই বৃষ্টি আজ কাঁদায় আমাকে, জাগিয়ে তুলে সে স্মৃতিটাকে কোনো একদিন তুমি কেঁদেছিলে, এই আমার দুটি হাত ধরে বলেছিলে কভু দূরে না হাড়াতে, অথচ কখন যেন নিজে হারালে আমায় একা ফেলে, তাই কেঁদে চলে বৃষ্টি আপন সুরে, আপন তালে, আপন সুরে... | |||||||||||||||||||||
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| So...am I finally understanding this??? Compromise = 50% from each spouse Sacrifice = 100% from each spouse Doing math here: 50% + 50% = 100% 100% + 100%= 200% 200% > 100% I'll take the 200% please. So what if only one spouse gives 100% and the other gives varying percentages? Only joking, but it really does happen...  | |||||||||||||||||||
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