Bhalobasho ekjonke biye koro onno jonke??

**mina** · 11:56 PM

Bhalobasho ekjonke biye koro onno jonke?? ei bishoye ki motamot??

amader deshe prai ei dhoroner ghotona hoye thake. poribar, poribesh eishob bhalobasha manena...ekhon jodio onek jaigai improve hoiche tarporo onek pichiye. abar onno khetre dekha jai je bhalobeshe nijera decide kore eke jibonshongi kora jabena...

emono hoije prem kore jara biye kore tarau chiroshukhi na. kintu bujhte to pari kake biye korche. shob jene shune biye korche. vise verse...

jader ke jor kore biye dei era koto tuku shukhi hoi?? asholei ki tara shukhi??? tader mone ki tader bhalobashar manush tar sthan shore jai?? ora ki kauke nijer mone dhukkher kotha bolte pare? amar obak lage ekjon oporichito manushke biye diye dei ma baba na chene loktake na jane tar shobhab. na onno kichu. shudu jachai kore poribar kemon. ekta gacher shob fol mishti hobe bole to kotha nei. goborer moddhe shapla o paua jai. eita keno manush mante chaina? jor kore jake biye diche shontan tar kotha chinta korena kibhabe ei shontan survive korbe?? proshnor por proshno mathai ghurche....baki tomra tomader motamot share koro...

**Prova** · 02:10 AM

Bhalobasho ekjonke biye koro onno jonke?? ei bishoye ki motamot?? - Stupid, ajaira!!

amader deshe prai ei dhoroner ghotona hoye thake. poribar, poribesh eishob bhalobasha manena...ekhon jodio onek jaigai improve hoiche tarporo onek pichiye. abar onno khetre dekha jai je bhalobeshe nijera decide kore eke jibonshongi kora jabena - Eshob thik na!! i know family, culture eishob chinta kore nijer life ta re hell banay!! i don like that!

emono hoije prem kore jara biye kore tarau chiroshukhi na - Ei kotha ta eksho koti bar shunchi!!! but amar mone hoy na eta true!!!

jader ke jor kore biye dei era koto tuku shukhi hoi??- Moteo shukhi hoy na!! well i donno, but i think nope!

asholei ki tara shukhi??? Nope!! i don think so!!

tader mone ki tader bhalobashar manush tar sthan shore jai??- Is it that easy???

ora ki kauke nijer mone dhukkher kotha bolte pare?- kake bolbe? Keu bujhbe jodi jor kore biye day keu?

amar obak lage ekjon oporichito manushke biye diye dei ma baba na chene loktake na jane tar shobhab. na onno kichu. shudu jachai kore poribar kemon. ekta gacher shob fol mishti hobe bole to kotha nei. - Exactly!! eta amaro kotha!!!

goborer moddhe shapla o paua jai. eita keno manush mante chaina? - Allah e malum!!!

jor kore jake biye diche shontan tar kotha chinta korena kibhabe ei shontan survive korbe?? - Exactly!!

proshnor por proshno mathai ghurche....baki tomra tomader motamot share koro - I hate the fact that family ra jor kore onnoder shathe biye day!!! i don support this system at all!

**mina** · August 2nd, 2008, 02:14 AM

ki kora uchit ei system theke ber korar jonno...??? motamot janau

**Prova** · August 2nd, 2008, 02:30 AM

Ei system theke ber howar jonne family der bujhte hobe je ajkal eshob jor kore biye dawa thik na!!! aj kal kar generation e eshob chole na!!

**ReeV** · August 2nd, 2008, 05:22 AM

Bhalobasho ekjonke biye koro onno jonke ?
Well, this is pretty much bullshit. Undying Love bolte to kichui nai. This way or that, ull get hurt and all. And most of the time will end up breaking up. Tarpor Biye to Social, Physical reason e korei fele pubics. So, its natural I guess.

**Bubla** · August 2nd, 2008, 09:10 AM

Regarding ‘jor kore biye’, if u are employed and self dependent then no one can let u married forcefully. So everyone regardless of gender should be self dependent if he or she wants to lead their life in their own term.

Life is not so simple to answer that question that ‘bhalobasa ek jonke and biye onno jon ke’ good or bad……it could happen and the choice is always personal whatever the reason behind it.

Love is an unconscious decision. You cant help or resist yourself to fall in love with someone. It just happens. But marriage is always a conscious decision and it should be a conscious decision because upon if other’s life is also attached and involved. So one can decide not to marry some one whom he/she loves simply because if he/she thinks that he/she will not be able to life with the other person despite of love or for any other damm reason. But if there is a commitment in the relation then everyone should keep the promise.

propen · August 2nd, 2008, 12:17 PM

amdr society onk besi sarthopor.karo karo kache ja valo ta oneker kachei kharap,abar ja kharap ta oneker kachei valo.
eta thk ber howar upay nai khub ekta.puro society bodlate hobe or be brave to stand alone.ei sahosta onekerE nai.

BlackskY · 07:05 PM

changing socity is a difficult and long-term process.and as propen brof "be brave to stand alone". on the other hand, we all should knw about our family status, culture...blah..blah. if we r aware of that, n can prepare ourself not to hurt out parents ever anyway, then we might be able to prevent that problem i guess. we sudn't be forgot, we can say "i am" bcoz of em. i saw a thread which is a bit like this " tomar dress ke choose kore, tumi naki tomar family?? ". someone said ourself, bcoz how ma family (mum) should knw about ma choise, which i fancy... i don't think xactly like that way, bcoz they are the one who has shared us power of choosing, judging wheather anything's right or wrong, they've taught us about life. anyway, wot im tryin say is, ye its ya life, so u sud be the one who choose ya partner or whatever. but u can let em choose first, (trust me) they will think twice if u wud like that or not, wheather that suits u or not. but no matter wot, we must not hurt or avoid there decisions (unless u reallllllly think they might be wrong this time, nobody's perfect). we can say our decision rationally n emotionally. not by raising our voice to em.

**ReeV** · August 4th, 2008, 02:50 AM

This Society problem and/or Forceful marriage problem wouldnt be a thing if peoples could respect another's Personal life or independence. This would never happen.

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