The way u talking with others.....

Com on guys lets talk about ---

The way we are talking with our surrounding peoplez like -->>>

parents, siblings, cousins , Grand parents, uncle aunties , other relatives, Frendz , neighbors , unknown peoplez ......... etc etc


wot do u think ... the way u express your self is good enough or u got to improve yourself ? ......... why u think so ?




lets start guyz


Ps -- u could make comments on others, advice them ....... but no offense or personal attacks plz

Parents
amar abbar shathe ektu aladdi kore kotha boli, ek matro meye shei jonno ektu aladdi kore kotha bolle, onek kaaj kora jai..
amar mummyr shathe -freindly bhabe kotha boli, shob kichu share kori..
tader shathe banglai kotha boli

Brothers
since they r all youunger den me tader shathe order kore kotha boli.. not all da time though..
amar shobche choto bhai (4yrs) tar shathe ador kore kotha boli.. tahole she amar shob kotha shune.
tader shathe beshir bhag banglai kotha hoy, kintu onek kichu ache engilsheo boli.

aunts/ uncles
amar family khubi young shei jonno shobar shathe free, tai shobar shathe doohstami kore kotha boli.. amra shobai shob kichu share kori.

cousins
khubi freindly bhabe, freinds der moto..

My jaan
shob style kotha bola hoy. tar shathe emon bhabe kotha boli jemon ami ekta diary lekhchi.. shob emotions share kore. etc..

Freinds
mainly englishe kotha bola hoi.. onek rokumer kotha barta hoy, healthy discussions etc.. kintu shob shomoy hashi diye kotha boli.
oneker shathe hindi te boli dooshtami kore..
kintu eita tik ami onek kichu shojjo kori freindsder moddhe jemon, amar closest freind jemon shob shomoy or iccha moto hoy, mane amar idea accept hoi na kintu eita niye kichu boli na kono din, as i dnt like to create a fuss.

grandparents
amar ekhon shudhu dadu ache... unar shathe joto respect r ador kore kotha boli.
nanu jokhon chilen unar shathe onek moja kore kotha boltam.

colleagues
with respect, kintu je boss thake ami tader shubidar moto bhabe choli, jate kono complain na ashe.
emni colleauges tara to freindse moto.
jara boyoshko tader ke to joto respect diye kotha boli, kono din dekhai na je ami tader theke kono bepare beshi jani.. kintu tara bujhe jai amar kaaj dekhe..

lecturers
with respect.. kintu onek ache je eto boring onek shojjo kore thakte hoy.

customers
who ever they r, where ever they come from always talk to dem wid a smile, never argue, unless u knw dey r wrong an ave evidence to proove it.


Amar pagol brother
unake shob shomoy boka diye kotha bolte hoy, nahole paglami korbe jemon ghoomabe na, tik bhabe kono work korbe na, shei jonno shashon korte hoy...

kono bepare i dnt think i need to improove myself, i think my behaviour to all kinds of pple is fine according to mee...

r kichu mone ashtese na... jodi aro add korte hoy tahole amake boilen..

awesome description Tammi apiii ........ thik jemon ta cheyecilam .... temon tai likhechO .... .tnkx a lott


Pagla bro k ja koro tate ektu bashu rude hoye jay na ? .... ektu relaxed mood e kotha bolle ki hoy ?

bro - keno rude keno hobe???
jara wrong kore tader shathe mon kore bolte hoy, nahole bon hoye labh ki??
tik bolechina..

well... i try to be nice to all people, but friends: i talk with freely. and then parents: shob shomoy shob kichu bola jayna. bhai: dhakka diye kotha boli. and then, naighbors and other: nicely, with manners. and cousins: depending on how close i am to them, otherwise i am free with them as well. and boiragir shathe : na bolai bhalo. hehe!

Parents:: daddu er shathe khub kom kotha boli shoptahe 5 ta i guess.
Ma er shathe talk like a friend...ekke bare doster moto
Brothers:: choto er shathe always punk..boro bhai er shathe friendly
aunts/uncle:: normal...with respect
cousins:: according to age
GF::
Friends:: eder shathe koto rokomei je kotha hoy..beshi bhag bitlamy..
grandparents: nai

Ami protidin-e improve hoi! D:

Ovi ---- >> emon ans hoile hobe na ........ ekhon kar obostha bolo ... kar kar sathe kivabe kotha bolo .... den bolo , improve korte hobe kina (according to ur feelings)

Parents:
I try to tlk in a respectful way but sometimes tht doesn't happen when I'm pissed off at em. Plus I dun tlk tht much wid my parents...it depends.

Siblings:
LoL Always yellin at em and sometimes....I'm nice. I dun think they mind it tho.

Relatives:
I have to speak in a respectful manner bcoz they are my relatives, and u knw how bengali ppl are...they'll judge you on the way u tlk, walk, eat, etc. "apnar meye eita kore keno...oita kore keno,eita kora bhalo nah...she shud be more like dis n dat" blah blah...U get the fukin point. So bcoz of dis, I try my best to be well mannered so these ppl dun come to my parents n fukin complain n end up embarassing my parents.

Unknown Bengali ppl:
I'm nice wid em...but if they start tlkin shyt then why shud I respect em? I ignore em lolz. Like if I see em on the street, I ignore em n dun give salam. Bcoz of dis few bengali aunties think, I'm not well mannered. I dun really give a fuk abt wot they think. As we all knw...bengali ppl got the biggest mouth ever. Not jus bengaliz but pakiz/indianz...I shud jus say us "brown" pplz.

Unknown white ppl:
I dun really knw any unknwn white pplz, but if someone introduces me to someone whom I dun knw then...yeh, obviously I wan make a gud impression.

Frndz:
Wid frndz...I tlk w/e way I feel like tlking, and I usually swear alot .

Overall, I think the way I tlk wid my surroundings, it's gud enuff. But yeh there's always room for improvement.

Boiragi, Well Addin "No Personal Attacks/Offending someone personally" addin means u r sayin Ppl do this on other Threads ... Which is actually against Forum's Rule ... So is that u r sayin Administration is not bein able to Maintain Rules ?!

Well I assume I act a lot wit most of the Peeps around Me ... Bein wut They Want me to Be ( Though I don think i hav a 100% success Rate ) ... Thats pretty much it ... I don have a Straight Rule book of "That is the way I sud act wit Them" ... I just try to be as They want me to be ... And thats pretty much it for others too I guess ... U just can never be Same wit a Person ...