Prostitution:: Whats the effect in society

**Rayan** · May 17th, 2007, 11:52 AM

hey guys and girls

Prostitution ..its a sad word in our society..but there is no society which doest have this part...

Well what do u think about this part?
what do u think about the Prostitutes?
what are the reason of them to choose that life?
are u ready to go into their life and bring them back in normal life?

noble · May 17th, 2007, 12:58 PM

Tomar ei thread jokhon portesi, tokhon amar pashe ekjon sociology kora ekta meye boshe silo, shey boltese tomar forum member ke bolo prostitute shobdota use na korte, tar jaigai Sex worker use korte and I agreed with her. Please use Sex Worker instead of Prostitute.

**afsana911** · May 17th, 2007, 02:08 PM

well... its not all their fault that they're prostitutes. time and situations force them to choose this occupation.
and it is indeed a part that we look at with disguse but i believe that it is possible for them to have a normal life and not carry the title prostitutes, OR sex workers!! ( btw, i hate that title, prostitute sounds better)

**Rayan** · May 17th, 2007, 06:38 PM

Well whether we call them prostitute or sex worker that doesnt make any difference...

its what do u think about themselves..

disa_1966 · May 18th, 2007, 12:19 AM

Prostutes should not be neglected, they are human beings. Just needs cooperation to lead good life. Rather than rebuke they have to give vocational training to lead their life honestly.

**tamchow** · May 18th, 2007, 12:49 AM

i think da best way to tackle this situation is to get their kids out of there so they can lead a decent lives.. give them education.. so they can earn their money by not selling bodies..

**mina** · May 18th, 2007, 01:46 AM

Prostitute are people who have sex for money. Either male or female. Male are called "rent boys" "gigolos" women refer to "*****", "call girl" etc. So in this case Noble Da "sex workers" not suits this term.

Well what do u think about this part?
Keu prostitute hoye jonmo grohon korena. ami amader desh niye bolchi. amader deshe jara prostitute bises kore meyera tara onekei peter daye, tader sonsarer daye othoba dheka jai oder so called shami oder force kore takar jonno.

Nijer sorir bikri kore taka rojgar kore. Eita marattok bhabe amader society-r dosh. Amader society jodi prostitute allow na korto tahole kokhono ei shobdo-tir jonmo hotona. kintu jokhon meyeder sorir interest hoye daralo tokhon eita ekti international term hisebe porinito holo.

what do u think about the Prostitutes?
Simple People that are forced to be in this position

what are the reason of them to choose that life?
Prothomoto pet ebon society...eikhane beche takhar jonno manush koto kichu na kore. Amra sobai chai attosomman niye beche thakte somaje ekta naam rakhte. Doshjon jeno naam mone rakhte pare. ei dhoroner intention niye onekei kaj kore takhe. kintu sobar kopale ki r shei atto somman, atto morjada mile ki?

Jara janai korena sexual intercourse high level or standard bhabe kore tara hoye takhe gonno manno beakti. R jara janiye kore tader nam koron kora hoi Prostitute ebon totally society theke alada kore deya hoi.

Ekbar ki kheyal kore dekhecho jara sorir dekhiye ponno bikri korche, ullongo hoye modeling kore, era beshir bhagi meyera korche. Media te sob somoi meyeder ke ponno hisebe use kora hoi. chotto ekta example di...Fair and Lovely...ei advert ki cheleder niye kora hoi?? hoina. keno meyeder niye kora hoi, keno dekhai meyera kalo hole kaj milena? forsha holei kaj mile jai?? ki dhoroner jogonno ebon baje society te bash korchi amra. kintu tara thiki rojgar korche ebon tader naam mediar sob khanei.

Rayan, tui r ekti thread open korechile mone ache "is look everything?" ei proshnor keno tomar mathai ashche societyr karone. society ei dhoroner sentence word ke pradanno diche bole tomar mathai ei dhoroner chinta dharona ashlo. ebon onekei bollo je meyeder front desk rakha hoi karon tader look er karone. here is a nother example.

ekhon asha jak ashol topic-e. jara media-te nijer sorir bikri korar kaj paina, Barir bua holeo tader shanti nei, somaje tader jonno kono jaiga nei. kintu pet, sonsar, bacha, oneke poristitir shikar hoi. r neme jai nijer sorir bikri kore. tokhoni ora hoye jai prostitue. karon era sobaike janiye sexual intercourse korche bole. r mediar pichone jara korche tader ke gonnomanno beakti hisebe mana hoi.

are u ready to go into their life and bring them back in normal life?
Normal life?? what the defination of normal life?

**afsana911** · May 18th, 2007, 04:51 AM

yeah well.. i think that (whatever we call them) prostitutesm shudnt be neglected like they are now. their life shud be considered normal as ours. yes, they do have an occupation that it not what we want to do or something that we hate to hear abt. but they're still human beings. we have no write to treat them badly 'cause of what they to do earn money.

**Rayan** · May 18th, 2007, 02:57 PM

Ok Hoyto amar kotha karo kase bhalo lagbena..But Peter daye jara Prostitution e name tader moto looser dunaiy ar nai...and thik e ase tader oi alada shomajei thaka uchit...

Cheleder kotha to bad e dilam..they shuld be kicked ss...
Ekta meyer jodi eke bare joghonno chehara hoy..eke bare jacche tai body hoy..what do u think? bajare tar oi bebshay rate koto hobe?
ba tara jodi khora,ondho..erokom hoy?
so tara nishchoi able at the way of body...so peter tane keno deho bechba?
duniay ki gorib nai? ekta prostitute joto earn kore amader deshe ekhono bohut people ache jara tader cheye kom taka nie beche ache...shutorang oi dhoroner manush der jonno amar bindu matro shohanuvuti ba nunnotomo shomman bodh nei..

Now ya i have a lot for them...jaderke pachar,kajer kotha bole dhoka,Dalal shami er khoppore pora..etc.. karon era shecchay choose koreni...tara tarpor eto ta bhoy ar shonkoche bash kore je tara ar shomaje fire ashte chayna...hoy oneke bastob bole mene ney..abar onek suicide kore...Hay tader jonno amader onek kichu kora ache...

and MINA ami tader ei life ke abnormal bolbo...karon ei shob meyera moner dik theke ek muhurteo shantite shavavik bhabe nei...

And ya Mina otao ek dhoroner prostitution ami bolbo..karon tara to tader dehoy bechche...this models ( not all..most of them )..well ya tara to peter daye fame er chahiday kortese...ar amader shomaj to tader ke ekbar chute parle...ekbar tader shu dristite ashte parle borte jay..so e bepare ar kisu bole lav nai...karon SHOW business er ekta Model ke bie korar jonno koyek lakh chele darie jabe...ar joto shundor e hok...oi rokom dalalder khoppore pore je meyeta ek shomoy oi ondhokar life ta katiase..hoyto ALLAH er rohmote abar fire ashte parse..but take ke bie korte chabe? je chabe Tar jonno amar hajar salam...

Dhukkher bishoy amra je aj ei duniay kisher pichone chutchi ta ekta khon chotar fake bhebeo dekhina......

Shakib · May 18th, 2007, 09:41 PM

well prostitution or sex worker...its really a sensitive sub...i think bd r maximum sex worker e peter jala control korte na pere ai line a ase...jokhon onno kono way thake na ek suicide kora chara tokhon e tara ai line a ase...r aigular jonno mainly responsible amader desher daridrota,ashikha r bekarotto...ai prob gula slove kora gele mone hoi na keu r ai dhoroner line a asbe...

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