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Default Lady's First???, Posted December 6th, 2007, 11:58 PM #1 (permalink) |
Jogonnno ekti sentence....Lady's First???

treat me as human not by gender. I just hate this sentence. when i am by the door and see a man open the door for me, i come to stop point...then say thanks please go head........he will say "lady's first" again stop for a sec...then hold the door i say please go on....he look at me like am some kind of alien or something. he would say why you didn't like my offer? >>>> You couldn't resist yourself to say "Lady's First". So why not "person name" if i know him...or "please you go head." and the expression wierd!!!!

Lady's First.........ososhtikor phrase, sentence.....................don't you think?

তাই রিমঝীম সে কেঁদে চলে, আপন সুরে আপন তালে

সেই বৃষ্টি আজ কাঁদায় আমাকে, জাগিয়ে তুলে সে স্মৃতিটাকে
কোনো একদিন তুমি কেঁদেছিলে, এই আমার দুটি হাত ধরে
বলেছিলে কভু দূরে না হাড়াতে, অথচ কখন যেন
নিজে হারালে আমায় একা ফেলে, তাই কেঁদে চলে বৃষ্টি আপন সুরে,
আপন তালে, আপন সুরে...

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Default Posted December 7th, 2007, 11:28 PM #2 (permalink) |
thats true...shohoj bepar hole bolbe ladys 1st
ar kono joruri bepar hole ami 1st
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Default Posted December 8th, 2007, 02:54 AM #3 (permalink) |
U hate the "LADIES FIRST" one ...... den ...... u lyk 2 listen " LADIES LAST" ?
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Default Posted December 8th, 2007, 04:26 AM #4 (permalink) |
ye api i agree... kintu nijer dorkar hole den eita amio use kori.. but i hate those formalities dat men smtimes do by holding da door.. i mean wen dey really need to dey dnt.. n wen dont dey doo... arrrggg.....
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Default Posted December 8th, 2007, 09:36 AM #5 (permalink) |
Lady's first sounds fine to me..i mean, people are giving Ladies the right to be the first and isnt that a good thing?
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U hate the "LADIES FIRST" one ...... den ...... u lyk 2 listen " LADIES LAST" ?
first o na last o na.... BEST
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Default Posted December 8th, 2007, 10:43 AM #7 (permalink) |
i offer chivalry only to the ladies who deserve it !
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Default Posted December 8th, 2007, 01:42 PM #8 (permalink) |
Lady's first or last eita o ba bolte hobe keno??

ami prothome ki likhechilam why can't be hold the door don't say the sentence lady's first...what;s the mean of this sentence???

nopeeeeeeeeeeeeee giving respect and hold the door and say lady's first....no no...then in that both have the right to get the respect women/men

তাই রিমঝীম সে কেঁদে চলে, আপন সুরে আপন তালে

সেই বৃষ্টি আজ কাঁদায় আমাকে, জাগিয়ে তুলে সে স্মৃতিটাকে
কোনো একদিন তুমি কেঁদেছিলে, এই আমার দুটি হাত ধরে
বলেছিলে কভু দূরে না হাড়াতে, অথচ কখন যেন
নিজে হারালে আমায় একা ফেলে, তাই কেঁদে চলে বৃষ্টি আপন সুরে,
আপন তালে, আপন সুরে...

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Default Posted December 8th, 2007, 02:40 PM #9 (permalink) |
Ladies first culture is more in West than East. Here if there are ppl dying due to stampede in a high crowd more death will be for women and kids. Ppl here are less systematic, less civilized and less respectful.

ar jodi sobai civilized hoy, tahole lady r jonno dorja khule hese hese dariye thaka ta just akta Nekami plus Dhong mone kori. Holding the door for a old person is perfectly fine.
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Default Posted December 9th, 2007, 07:49 AM #10 (permalink) |
well said Vor Api....

dhong noito ki r...

তাই রিমঝীম সে কেঁদে চলে, আপন সুরে আপন তালে

সেই বৃষ্টি আজ কাঁদায় আমাকে, জাগিয়ে তুলে সে স্মৃতিটাকে
কোনো একদিন তুমি কেঁদেছিলে, এই আমার দুটি হাত ধরে