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Exclamation why was the 'inside story' thread closed?, Posted April 23rd, 2007, 06:31 PM #1 (permalink) |
i ud like to be clarified as to why and under what circumstances the 'inside story' thread (link: http://www.banglaforum.com/fashion-s...de-story-6584/) was closed.

also plz specify of the definite clause of the bangla forum guidelines that was referred to at the time of the closure.

and...

'sick comments'

what is 'sick' about being blunt about what attracts a man to a woman? the truth too inconvenient i presume.
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Default Posted April 23rd, 2007, 08:51 PM #2 (permalink) |
I don’t feel like to explain it to you why I closed that thread. And I can give you the reason for it;

YOU’RE NOT ONE OF THE POSTERS ON THAT THREAD. SO YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO ASK EXPLANATION ABOUT CLOSING THAT THREAD.

Tell me, How you’d feel If few of your friends starts discussing about how your sister looks to them why she wear Saree & they can see her belly & become hot ? Will you join to that discussion? There’s few things you should not express those publicly.

It’s sad that one of our MODs also made comment there. I never expected that.

That thread should be deleted but i closed it, because i knew one of you'll ask why i closed that thread. and i want other to see what you guys said there.

If you think, I abused my power & after that you should not stay here, then leave. I don’t care. Since you already said Bye Bye in a thread. I care about 100 peoples, their feelings rather then one person’s. I got few complain about that thread & after closing that thread I also got few PMs “saying Thanks”. And don’t think they were wrong.

I don’t want to add any Warning System in this forum. Because giving warning & banning someone is same thing. And I won’t care next time banning, if it’s a mod or a member.
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Default Posted April 23rd, 2007, 09:48 PM #3 (permalink) |
Tell me, How you’d feel If few of your friends starts discussing about how your sister looks to them why she wear Saree & they can see her belly & become hot ? Will you join to that discussion? There’s few things you should not express those publicly.

Ami Eros er shathe ekmot, such a discussion like that should not done in BF or publicly.
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Default Posted April 24th, 2007, 05:00 AM #4 (permalink) |
First of all that byebye thread was a parody, if ull have forgiven my sarcasm. Im quite taken aback that u have failed to realized so after having read the posts there.


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YOU’RE NOT ONE OF THE POSTERS ON THAT THREAD. SO YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO ASK EXPLANATION ABOUT CLOSING THAT THREAD.
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Tell me, How you’d feel If few of your friends starts discussing about how your sister looks to them why she wear Saree & they can see her belly & become hot ? Will you join to that discussion? There’s few things you should not express those publicly.
Id be repulsed, offended to the very core. Id not partake in the coversation instead do my utmost to prevent any further discussions on the matter taking place.

HOWEVER, this is an inernet message board where anonymity is key. From what ive read of the thread, it was not personally directed to any one in any manner and although i can see how some ppl ud find the posts there offensive, i fail to see how closing the thread ud serve their sentiments and at the same time not be considered as abuse of power, the very reason of my asking of the closure.

The thread was closed based on issues of morality not technicality. Even though i was not a poster, that i found was intreaguing in an internet message board, especially since bareknucke discussions are the norm, and posts more often than not ARE offensive owing to the subjective nature of the threads in question



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If you think, I abused my power & after that you should not stay here, then leave. I don’t care.
Now thts just hurtful, and i can sense tht u have taken offence to my creating the thread where no malice was intended mind u , but that's just hurtful coming from you, of all people.


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I don’t want to add any Warning System in this forum. Because giving warning & banning someone is same thing. And I won’t care next time banning, if it’s a mod or a member.
Will bans be handed out on grounds of morality? As the now infamous thread has shown, what is morally justified to some will be offensive to others.
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Default Posted April 24th, 2007, 05:35 AM #5 (permalink) |
Personally i thought Our MOD gonna Del dos postz which were really Dusturbing ........ any of a thread would threat by two diff wayz ........ Positive and Negative way ........ It was kinda " A " rated thread ... but it could threated in positive / funny way rather den useing ODD wordz .... but b4 taking step of any MOD...... EroS took step and closed it ....... it would be an exmpl for the future ...... i m supporting U for ur strong reaction.
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Well as Always I appreciate and respect wut Eros bro do ... And if Anyone get offended by that thread or some "posts" then I deeply support that thread to be Closed or perhaps will support that thread to be Deleted too ... But i assume none of us ( Who were talkin or thinkin about postin at that Thread ) wanted to offend anyone and obviously we were only just tryin to discuss about it ... Nothin else ... And I suppose ppl got more offended by my Post and probably the Thread title too ...
And I really am sorry if anyone got offended by my Post ... I assume it wud be better to use to different way ( or owrds ) of eXpression ...
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Default Posted April 24th, 2007, 12:23 PM #7 (permalink) |
well, you can close "who you want to marry" in case your friends starts discussing abt marrying your sister , eh ? this thread is common in all forums, and there is no shame of telling what u find sexy in opposite sex
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Default Posted April 24th, 2007, 12:39 PM #8 (permalink) |
oh my!

i thought they left banglaforum

i am going blind.. cause i thought i saw such posts...

anyways welcome back "the protector of free speech, the all seeing eye, the prophet of humanity, truth, honor, respect and love, the man by the books"

i wish i could be like u

don't be offended cause if u do.. ami onek kosto pabo.. ami mon theke boltesi
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