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Default Posted September 7th, 2007, 08:53 PM #21 (permalink) |
jokhon amar life er shomosto kichu amar will er biruddhe jai, jokhon amar hater onk gula choice er result ultimately aki rokom loosing type hoye jai tokhon amr ki kora uchit? well, u can say dat i shud wait... my ques is for how long shud i wait? 1 yrs, 2 yrs...more?? ami duniyar bisoy tishoy bujha shuru korsi mone kore 12 bochor boyoshe.. tarpor thke akhon poirjonto to wait e kore jacchi.. ar koto? moddhe akta bochor katiye chilam, awesome, i felt like being at heaven. but abar shuru hoise shei shob bad lucks. akta manusher life hoa uchit normal, karo shathe jodi xtra ordinarily bad luck er jinish ghot te shuru kore tokhon tar ki kora uchit? jotodin beche thkbo totodin pain chara ar kichui pabo na, just kicchu na.. taile beche thakar ortho ki? khamakha akdi akdin kore notun koshto jhulite vorar ki dorkar?
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Default Posted September 7th, 2007, 08:59 PM #22 (permalink) |
Joyee -->> kono kichu na pawa mane ei noy je --- its da end of lyf , na pawar kosto howa ta savabik .... kintu na pawa k akre na rekhe Jibone ki peyechO seta chinta kore dekhO ... na pawa take mone hobe Oneek samannO bepar !!! Try to do think POSITIVE !!!!
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Default Posted September 7th, 2007, 09:18 PM #23 (permalink) |
amar ja bolar chilo sheita nishithiny already boila felche...suicide is the most cowardice act...an easy way out of everything, except when u know that u r to die anyways if u don't kill urself...
onek suicide case-e dekha jay je the person wasn't mentally stable...so in other words wanting to suicide is a mental disorder as well
onekei boltese je suicide kora kothin...it's 100% ture...it's much easier to kill sum1 else than to kill urself...so if one can perform that hard task so easily, can he not obviously solve the friggin problem for which he's committing suicide???
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... Suicide ... its indeed escapin ( wit courage ) from this whole F***in world wit a satisfaction. Its Satisfaction cuz only a few peeps on this earth can commit suicide ... and Bein rare is a Satisfaction for every Human Bein ...
morar por being rare hoiai lav ki r satisfied hoiai lav ki r tumi ki moragular interview nia dekhso je tara satisfied

now, to switch gear to religious disc., it's said "rakhe allah, mare ke?"...jodi eita shotti hoy, taile hajar cheshta por-o to keu attohotta korte parar kotha na...also "everything goes according to His will" n "jar jeivabe mrittu lekha ase she sheivabei/sheikhanei morbe"...then y on earth suicide is a sin...isn't it a plan of His?
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"everything goes according to His will" n "jar jeivabe mrittu lekha ase she sheivabei/sheikhanei morbe"...then y on earth suicide is a sin...isn't it a plan of His?
by that logic, nothing would count as sin; it's said that one's kopal is already determined by the almighty at the time of birth


about suicides: it's a conscious decision on part of the victim(!)

easy way out or not, suicide for many is liberation from suffering and torment (mental or otherwise); we can only respect that choice
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Default Posted September 8th, 2007, 02:15 PM #25 (permalink) |
when u feel u are the greatest looser see around....tomar thekeo onek boro looser ase pasei ache...nd tara tobuo beche ase....keu hoy to beche thakar jonno nijer sorir bikri kore dicche...
oder sathe nijer pain compare korle seta pain mone hobe na....





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oder sathe nijer pain compare korle seta pain mone hobe na....
it's all relative
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Default Posted September 9th, 2007, 06:45 PM #27 (permalink) |
Younger rono said it all. As much as I hate to agree with you rono on most matters, this time you are right.


#1. Suicide is the MOST cowardish act a human can possibly perform.
#2. Before committing suicide they should think about the ever lasting impact on his/her closest people.
#3. By committing suicide not only you lower yourself but also lower your family members with you.

Now you can say that, I wanna do it, so I'll do it, when I am dead who cares about what happens after it. Well, for that all I gotta say is people you loved, people who loved you, your family & friends they are not gonna die nor will they commit suicide and be gone. They will have to live with the horrific memory of your suicide.


Okay, leave all that. Let's come to the main point. God has created us(These words are for those only who actually believe there is some one up there) He has set up this whole system around us. We eat, breath, drink and live our life. Obstacles will come in life. They might be small they might be huge. It is up to us to overcome these obstacles in life. Why are we called the greatest creation of God? Because we have been given the ability to think, judge and perform tasks in so many different ways.

When you are lying deep down in pain and suffering, sometimes it seems unbearable, sometimes you just can't take it anymore. That is all very common in life, you can't just be happy all your life. If you were then you wouldn't even feel what it is.

BUT, why would you have to take out your frustration on your life? If human being were given so much intelligence to work their way out in difficulties, then why not implement that on your problems?


Dying is not a solution. I have seen some people commit suicide. I have seen a very close friend do it too. Hell, have you any IDEA of how horrible impact it leaves on your dearest people? It is a shock that lasts a long long long time. The pain it leaves the victims parents in are so immense that some times it just breaks them down totally. Let alone their lovers and all the other people.

You say you have pain? You say you have suffered a lot? Let me tell you this, there are far greater pain out there that you cannot even imagine. Who haven't suffered from pain in their life? But you have to over come it and the best thing you can do is defeat your fate by not surrendering to the mental illness of suicide and all those craps.

I've had fatal blows in my own life too, pain seemed ever lasting, immense. But still I live right?

God has given you one life. Make the best out of it and prove to yourself why you(human) are called the greatest creation among all others.


PS: I apologize For writing such a big essay, I just can't help it when I see people trying to waste their life, be a MAN/WOMAN, not the term called coward.
I live in a world beyond your world....

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"SUICIDE " a sign of a coward :/ !
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