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Question How much risk we can take to explore a new friend?, Posted January 18th, 2007, 05:31 AM #1 (permalink) |
Do we wanna take risk? Are we going to reveal ourselves in front of a person just met on chatting? Do you go ahead and trust in your first interaction?

Most of us will say, it will take some time to trust someone. If you spend more time with the individual, you can have the 'feel' to trust. But let me ask you...are you certain that after 10 years friendship/romance your trust can not get broken? To my ideology...I will trust with my first impression and it's his/her responsibility to keep that trust. Feelings is something you can't go after with calculating whether the person is a good fit for you or not. It is always win or loose situation, no risk no gain.
How much risk you can take??

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Default Posted January 18th, 2007, 12:39 PM #2 (permalink) |
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Do we wanna take risk? Are we going to reveal ourselves in front of a person just met on chatting? Do you go ahead and trust in your first interaction?

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i do actually

not evry1 in chat or forums are dememnted killers or sexual predators, id imagine tht 99.99% of us are just looking for a great time, so being urself IMO is always a good thing when ur having fun


and internet romance, well they are just like any other long distance relationships, and LDRs are notorious for rarely ever working out; if u cant 'trust' (which really is all u have), then why bother being in the relationship in the first place

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Default Posted January 18th, 2007, 06:33 PM #3 (permalink) |
frendship in person and frendship on net r totally diff .............. i can understand a frend within 2 - 3 meetingz but its q8 difficult to understand a frend on net .... coz as i believe ... net is a fake lyf where 99.99% r fake stuffz ....... So at dat lyf .... i need to hav minimum 7 dayz to trust a person ......... coz i believe bet dis tym period i can understand his / her mentality .......... So ...... after havin his / her mantal test i can share ma secrets wiv dem
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Default Posted January 20th, 2007, 11:24 PM #4 (permalink) |
don't go with the 1st impression. everyone is on their best at the 1st meeting.
how much risk can i take to explore a new frind ? None ! (I don't even know the risk involved )
I'll let the friend to explore me .
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Default Posted January 21st, 2007, 01:43 AM #5 (permalink) |
th pblm u hv raised only happens in case of gals...coz gals faces th risk much and thts why they bcom caucus but boys don bother 4 tht
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Default Posted January 22nd, 2007, 07:03 PM #6 (permalink) |
Relationship ... Don even wanna talk about it ... I just have no faith on dat Onlyn Relationship ...

Now wut can I say about Onlyn Frndship ... No matter its a HE or SHE ... I take some tym to meet him/her ... No matter how great or worst is da first impression ...
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Default Posted January 22nd, 2007, 07:07 PM #7 (permalink) |
Online Realation ummmm not accepteble to me...

and friendship...takes time...
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Default Posted January 22nd, 2007, 07:21 PM #8 (permalink) |
well amar mote trust jinish ta 2 bhabe ashe 1 holo kauke dekhar shathe shathe feel hoe je i can trust him/her... & 2nd ly kauke janar pore tar shathe time spend korar pore mone hoe je he/she is trustable.... so it depend on the person who i want to be friend wit....
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2nd ly kauke janar pore tar shathe time spend korar pore mone hoe je he/she is trustable.... so it depend on the person who i want to be friend wit....
ter mane tumi ter shate ghura-fira bolba good bye...LOL...nice idea..carry on frnd
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