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Default Household Chores!!, Posted April 8th, 2008, 07:25 AM #1 (permalink) |
In a study of marriages, researchers found that housework is relatively optional for men. Men share more when they think they should.

::Guys::

What is your housework ideology?
Do you view housework as unmanly?

Do you see pitching in as a practical solution to getting things done?

What is your idea of sharing household chores?
Do you want to split the chores 50-50, 60-40, or 80-20?
Which chores would you rather do yourself?


::Girls::

How would you feel if your husband depends on you to get things done?
What do YOU think men should do around the house?

Or are you completely fine with your husband not doing anything?
What about after having kids, what jobs should be considered as your husband’s job?


Now, am not saying every guy is like that, I know some husbands do help their wives, and I think that’s soo sweet!! But, what about you?...
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Default Posted April 8th, 2008, 12:06 PM #2 (permalink) |
What is your housework ideology?
Well There is nothing wrong about it and the sense is perfectly alright!

Do you view housework as unmanly?
Not at all

Do you see pitching in as a practical solution to getting things done?
Yeah i guess

What is your idea of sharing household chores?
Well then the work is done faster and time is saved for other things

Do you want to split the chores 50-50, 60-40, or 80-20?
50-50 sounds great

Which chores would you rather do yourself?
When it comes to cook food!

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Default Posted April 10th, 2008, 12:17 AM #3 (permalink) |
How would you feel if your husband depends on you to get things done?

Very bad!! I don want that!!!

What do YOU think men should do around the house?

Help with cooking, cleaning, laundry, taking out the trash

Or are you completely fine with your husband not doing anything?

Oh hell no, am not fine with it!!...he better get his butt off the couch and help me!!

What about after having kids, what jobs should be considered as your husband’s job?

Buying food for kids, feeding them, ....well am not asking him to do EVERYTHING, coz thats not nice, all i want him to do is HELP!!...even if i don need any help, he shud atleast ask me if i need help or not!!
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Default Posted April 10th, 2008, 01:03 AM #4 (permalink) |
How would you feel if your husband depends on you to get things done?

Not Good. Very bad. Lazy.Kiddish.

What do YOU think men should do around the house?

Everything needed to make a normal household.

Or are you completely fine with your husband not doing anything?

:/

What about after having kids, what jobs should be considered as your husband’s job?

umm Cant list now, the jobs should be planned...
ofcourse not everything everytime...but he should be able to manage the kid when i wud be bz... and for that he should know evrything
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Default Posted April 10th, 2008, 05:54 AM #5 (permalink) |
What is your housework ideology?
11th Hour is the best time to do any housework.
Do you view housework as unmanly?
Nope.
Do you see pitching in as a practical solution to getting things done?
Yeah.
What is your idea of sharing household chores?
Thats the Right way to do ANYTHING.
Do you want to split the chores 50-50, 60-40, or 80-20?
60-40. Im not really good at it
Which chores would you rather do yourself?
Weekend works/stuffs of the house.
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Default Posted September 6th, 2008, 03:12 AM #7 (permalink) |
What is your housework ideology?

I'm her life partner so its my responsibility 2 share evry single part of her life.

Do you view housework as unmanly?

Taking the responsibilities of ur loved 1 defines a real man

Do you see pitching in as a practical solution to getting things done?

Yeah.

What is your idea of sharing household chores?

well I'd rather get bored if my wife gets stuck whole day n cant take out time 4 me.. so i'd do watever it takes 2 get her free asap.. i need time 4 romance.. damn it

Do you want to split the chores 50-50, 60-40, or 80-20?

it actually depends.. if we both hav jobs then 50-50 is cool, but if shez housewife n i'm too busy with office then 60-40 wud b fair in weekdays and 80-20 in weekends.

Which chores would you rather do yourself?

does kissing her count? .. umm ok help with coking
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