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Default Dil hein ki mantha nehi......., Posted October 25th, 2007, 04:37 AM #1 (permalink) |
Hi everyone... i need help... last week when i went to my sisters house, they showed me a groom... my sister likes the groom and the groom also likes me.... but am not very kin... he is ok... tall, handsome, very talkative as well and he's a doctor....so he is in a good proffession... but my heart didnt approve of it for some reason... my family want to know why i didnt like him... but how can i explain this to them since even i dont know the reason.... They want me to see him again and talk to him.... but am not interested... with me, i want to feel that i really want to be with someone, rather then have to be... He is perfect but it has to come from the heart... if i get married to him.... ami hoytho meney nithey pari...kinto meney neya aar money neyatho ek noi.... dont know what to do... any suggestions??
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Default Posted October 25th, 2007, 05:01 AM #2 (permalink) |
Moner opor jhor na korai valo....apni tar shate kotha bole dhakte paren...then time nen ektu..then dhaken mon ki bole? but ai shokol bepar a mon ar gurotto ta beshi thake
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Default Posted October 25th, 2007, 05:23 AM #3 (permalink) |
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Moner opor jhor na korai valo....apni tar shate kotha bole dhakte paren...then time nen ektu..then dhaken mon ki bole? but ai shokol bepar a mon ar gurotto ta beshi thake
Hai thai korbo... i dont want to force myself... but... i feel pressured... kichu bhalo lagse na...
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Default Posted October 25th, 2007, 06:48 AM #4 (permalink) |
some ques for u Halima ----

1. R u (mentally) ready for marry ?
2. wotz ur plan to do in future ? (except getting marry)
3. Do u lyk someone or not ?
4. R u belong to a conservative family ?
5. R u leading happy lyf (dis moment) ?

after getting answers i guess we can go ... furthur ..... in details.
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Default Posted October 25th, 2007, 06:49 AM #5 (permalink) |
This is the biggest decision of your life. Would you even consider marrying a stranger if your family weren't coercing you to do so? Do you see yourself being happy?

The very fact that you're having doubts about marrying someone who you'll spend your life with is indicative of your own skepticism in that regard. Do not make a choice that you'll regret five years from now.

This is your life. Good luck.
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Default Posted October 25th, 2007, 08:14 AM #6 (permalink) |
just tell them what u told us.. simple.. they shud understand.. i mean this is a very important life changing decision, isnt it?! u shud be the one to decide and be happy with ur decision.
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Default Posted October 25th, 2007, 10:31 AM #7 (permalink) |
Halima api, relax or sathe kotha bolle hoito oke r ektu sujog dile janar. kintu kotha bollei je oke biye korte hobe emon to na. r he nijer mon theke jodi or sathe kotha bolte iche na kore tahole obosshoi bolbo jor korio na. eita to jiboner boro ekta step, bujhe shune nite hobe. ma babake bujhau je jake mon theke pochondo hobena tar sathe tumi sonshar korbe kemne? sonshar to tomari korte hobe....tomar shob kichu face korte hobe. tahole begining stage jodi thiik moto badha na hoi to uporer dike uttei bhenge jauar shombobona beshi thake. i wish you best of luck apu.

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Default Posted October 26th, 2007, 12:19 AM #8 (permalink) |
If i were u, i wudve just tell my parents that i am not gonna marry someone i donno...but also i wud talk to the boy...maybe he IS the one for u.....good luck...
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Default Posted October 27th, 2007, 07:20 AM #9 (permalink) |
if u aren't opposed to marrying him for any other reason other than the fact that it doesn't come from your heart, then i advise you to talk to him a bit more. first impressions are not everything. but be sure to let ur parents n everyone else that by agreeing to talk to him does not mean u hv half way accepted him!
dun be scared to tell ur parents abt your own wish/desire. this is the most important decision in ur lyf. make a decision you feel will make u happy for the rest of your lives..not something that will give ur parents temp happiness.
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Default Posted October 27th, 2007, 07:55 AM #10 (permalink) |
I think tita already said what i wanted to tell you.. Just take it easy.. You dont have to say no or yes to yourr parents..
Later on you might regret.. So do something so you dont regret later that ahh I shudnt say No to the doctor.. Now i gotta pay 50000$ hospitol bill ;> By the way Good luck sweety.
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