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Question ~~~~ Apni, Tumi & Tui ~~~~, Posted August 12th, 2007, 04:53 AM #1 (permalink) |
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~~ APNI , TUMI & TUI ~~



~~ there are a lotz of contradiction and complex between us to use those 3 (Bangla) words ~~



~~ So , com on guyz , lets talk about it ~~



~~ Whom and when should we use those words and why ~~


~~ Lets Start ~~

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Default Posted August 12th, 2007, 05:29 AM #2 (permalink) |
this depends on the individual.. it should not be created in to a big deal.. wat ever we feel comfortable wid we can use to address others..
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Default Posted August 12th, 2007, 06:28 AM #3 (permalink) |
It's totaly deppens on person 2 person...
Amader culture amra boro der ke respect kore "Apni" Word ta use kori.. thats the main thing...
But onek khetre dekha jai je amra respect kore "Tui" word tao use kori..
ajka boro ra "tui" take beyadobi khetre dekha..
For ex... ami amar mama khala ke tui bole daki.... i personaly feel kori je eita ekta taan.. vhalobashar and respect diya ami tui word ta boli.. tui bolle amar kacha manush take bashi close and apon mone hoy...
kintu dekha jabe onno kono family te boro der ke tui bole daka ekta beyadobi.. kintu jodi amra chinta kore dekhi... ager kale.. grame not only ager kale still ekhono grame manush boro der ke tui bole take... it's a simple thing...kichu ´kichu grame
abar apnio bolto altime... like 1 years boro big bro ke apni bole tumi na bole...
Amra young genaration e "Tui n tumi" word ta use korte bashi pochondo kori... incase jodi person ta khubi age e boro na hoy tahole amra apni boli na sohoje... thats what i think...
So amra respect and vhodrotar khatire "Apni" boli... and friend n shomoboyoshi ba family related kauke apni boli...
onek shomoy dekha jai ochena shomo boyoshi kaukeo "Apni" boli...
ami nije tumi tumi tumi n tui tui tui word ta use korte pochondo kori

So it deppens on person to person..
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Default Posted August 12th, 2007, 07:34 AM #4 (permalink) |
forget contradictions
kake kivabe dakte hobe ota "andaaz" kore nilei hoy
ar jara "be-andaaz", mane bujte parchena ki kore address korte hobe, sud ask "Apnake ki bole address korle mind korben?"

"apni" sounds nice, I like using it.
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Default Posted August 12th, 2007, 10:31 AM #5 (permalink) |
I like the Word Apni..i use the word Tui very rarely..only my close friends..and my Big bro...even my Lil one i dont call him Tui..
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Default Posted August 12th, 2007, 11:04 AM #6 (permalink) |
Like everyone else said, it's totally upto the individual and what he/she feels comfortable adressing others as weather its tui/tumi/or apni. For me, I usually use APNI if it's someone out of my family like Auntis and uncles blah blah... them. I'm used to callin ppl by Tumi cuz I feel comfortable saying tht. I've never addressed anyone TUI unless I was swearing at them but other than tht...I don't use tht word. I liked this topic btw>>>BRAPZ TO BOIRAGI
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Default Posted August 12th, 2007, 01:14 PM #7 (permalink) |
Addressing by Apni, Tumi & Tui is a Challenging job Tumi for everyone is a better Solution. Don have to care wut s/he might thinking.
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Default Posted August 12th, 2007, 01:26 PM #8 (permalink) |
ekta shomoy silo jokhon para mohollai ei apni tumi bola nia khuna khuni porjonto hoito, jai hok kokhono emon hoito je amari shomo boyshi keu amar junior polapango loge mishto tokhon hotath jodi shamne poira jaito tokhon kotha bolto eibhabe - bhaloto na ? - amra tokhon aro khochaitam jate ekbar jodi tumi type kisu paojai to hat gorom hoibo LOL, tomar ki khobor? mathe asho na ken ? oi polar uttar tokhon aro short - besto, dekhi jabo ekshomoy.

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Default Posted August 12th, 2007, 02:09 PM #9 (permalink) |
Eshob ekhono chole Noble bhai. Purai Faltu mone hoy eshob ekhon.

Thats Why im sayin, There sud b a single one "Tumi" only.
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