The Pains & Joys of Living Abroad

i agree with gonder, its completely upto people how they chose to live their life.

and oz_luv_4_bd_gals .. the examples you gave in your post in reply to gonder .... sorry to say but makes no sense ( atleast to me ) what u want to prove...... firstly no point bringing the iraq or afghanistan or other Middle east issues in this... those are completely different than what you are talking about. then u said basis of relationship between boys and girls in western world ... well sorry to say even though you have lived in australlia for however long either you havent met a lot of people or you didnt care to know about them ..... and your aussie friend being taken care by a baby sitter ... look around you in bd ... all working women leave their kids either iwht their parents inlaws and if not them then with some hired person to take care of the baby when they are at work...


whatever you have said doesnt make any sense to me hope if does to the rest of the members. i dont meanto offend you or anyone who sahres similar views as you do i just stated my opinion

take care

oz_luv_4_bd_gals ohh man what u said im really diprese.i want to go abroad mean UK for study.i have to earn my tution fees and living also.ohh now i think its not a good idea.really sad man.how can i servi on there if dont get good job.thanks for share man.

whatever u said didnt offend me at all purple_HAZE . but lemme ask u something. do u agree wit this comment made by gonder "they r more human than any of us."

all my reponses were made in reply to that comment about western people. 'coz i couldnt agree with that. do u really think that they r more human than us in any point???

i dont know if they are better human than us but one thing for sure they are not hujuge ( thats a bangla word ) like us. u talking about war in afghanistan , you hit them and kill thousands of innocent peopl and expect the most powerful nation in the country to sit and watch?? by saying so i am not supporting the war. you talk about being us being more human ..... people in bangladesh tried to attack the diplomatic zone in dhaka, you think thats puts us on a good position in front of the rest of the world??? a certain group of our community march in support for terrorism, i dont see that to hold a good image of our country.....

well i dont know if i got my point throught to u oz_luv_4_bd_gals but whatever lets not get into any more agruement on this ...

in ur view we r more human than western people because they dont kill their own wife for nt getting money from their father in law.it is quite unthinkable that a man is killing his loving wife , only beacause of some money!!!. how unthinkable it may sounds but this senario is very common in our country.proti bosor e hundreds of women , joutuk er karone dater nij husband er hate mara jai bangladesh a.oz_luv_4_bd_gals brother apni ki airokom kono ghoton australia te kokhono sunechen.

in ur view we r more human than western people because Western people dont throw acid to innocent girls
just for denying their proposal of love/marrige.

i can give thousands of exmple but i dont i need to do so nw.

if u can give me thousands of examples i can give u billions of example. but the difference between ur examples and my examples r, i m speaking for my own ppl though i m frm western society and u r speaking against ur own ppl and i don know where r u frm. i thought this chapter was already closed. i hope nobody's gonna argue anymore about this topic. and the examples u gave in ur reply the same things also happen in western society too. but u never get the news. nways i don wanna go for anymore arguement about this topic. bcoz i started this thread about something else but unfortunately we r having arguement about something totally different frm the original point. nways thats all i wanna say to ur replygonder...

THE END

Don't worry bro we all will be leaving soon.

I hope we all done our research before this argument started... we have good and bad people all over the world. about the war, sorry but thats the only way to survive now, (Fight or be killed) you do wrong or not you will be blamed for it.

Thanks to the new world order, but yes no offence to the general public... its all about politics.