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Default What do u think about Masturbation?, Posted February 1st, 2007, 01:05 PM #1 (permalink) |
i was arguing with someone on this topic.. anyways.. i managed to piss tht person off..

anyways.. tell us about ur own views, religious points.. post anything related to tht.. religious document, links.. etc..

i dont think it as a good thing, but sometimes its necessary.. ami RELIGION bujhi na.. nijeke religious o boli na.. but ektu holeo mani.. anyways..

pls lets have a fair discussion.. no PONGTAMI ...


Masturbation refers to sexual stimulation, particularly of one's own genitals and often to the point of orgasm, which is performed manually, by other types of bodily contact (except for sexual intercourse), by use of objects or tools, or by some combination of these methods.[1] Masturbation is the most common form of autoeroticism, and the two words are often used as synonyms, although masturbation with a partner (mutual masturbation) is also common. Some people are able to achieve orgasm only through masturbation and not sexual intercourse[citation needed].

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Main article: Islam and masturbation
Istimna (استمناء) is the Arabic term for masturbation. In general, masturbation may only be done in fear of committing adultery, nor is it preferred (either getting married or fasting are preferred alternatives suggested in hadith).
Scholars of Islam do not generally approve of masturbation, except in extenuating circumstances. There is a statement in Quran "And those who guard their chastity, Except from their wives (or the slaves that their right hands possess),- for then, they are free from blame; But whoever seeks beyond that, then those are transgressors. (23:5-7)
In Islam, sexual engagement outside of marriage (and outside of slaves the right-hand possesses) is a major sin, which cause the doer to be punished in this life and the Qiyama. Yet if one's desire is so overwhelming one might perform a greater wrong by having sex outside marriage, masturbation becomes permissible as a necessity but in that case it will be like eating the flesh of pig when no other food is available. So Quran says "And those who are not married should try to live in chastity, until God enriches them with His Grace" (Qur'an, 24:33)
Masturbation, like any form of sex in which seminal or vaginal fluids have been released, breaks one's fast if performed during the daylight hours and requires a major ablution if any seminal or vaginal fluids were released.
According to Sheikh Hamed Al-Ali: "Masturbation during the daytime of Ramadan breaks the fast, based on the Hadith that a fasting Muslim gives up eating, drinking, and sexual desire for the sake of Allah. Since masturbation is a kind of sexual desire, a fasting Muslim must avoid it. Therefore, masturbation invalidates the fast as does food and as it is one of the sins that if someone does it he or she would be violating the sanctity of this month."

[edit] Shi'a sect

Masturbation is totally forbidden in the Shi'a sect.

[edit] Sunni sects

The four Sunni schools of jurisprudence (known as Madhaahib - the Hanafi, Shafi'i, Maliki and Hambali schools of Fiqh) have differing stances on the issue. Some consider it forbidden in all cases. Some see it forbidden in certain cases but obligatory in others. Another view is that it is Makruh but not expressly forbidden.



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Default Posted February 1st, 2007, 04:57 PM #2 (permalink) |
q: what do u think about masturbation ?
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Default Posted February 1st, 2007, 06:25 PM #3 (permalink) |
in short ............... it is nothing but SELF ABUSE
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Default Posted February 1st, 2007, 07:36 PM #4 (permalink) |
Diz masturbation is a thing lyk ... Most of da pplz do diz when dey r Young ... Notcha a matter of shame or Somethin I guess ... I guess 80% of ppls r used 2 wit diz while growin up ...
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Default Posted February 1st, 2007, 08:29 PM #5 (permalink) |
My personal opinion is that it masturbating is something that does NOT make one abnormal or sick-minded...most ppl do it, yet so many worry/feel shamed of doing it...Usually we find out about masturbation at our young ages when we r curious bout anything that's sexual...that leads to finding out what this thing is...some ppl get "addicted" to it, some ppl don't...there's not physical or mental side-effects associated with it nor can anyone relate this to any mental disease...so i don't see anything bad or dirty or dangerous with masturbation...i don't even find it as something to be embarrassed about...
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Default Posted February 1st, 2007, 11:54 PM #6 (permalink) |
no masturbation is a very natural act and it is instinct tht brings about such self pleasure

its a natural act of pleasuring oneself and it is thru preconceived notions tht many find it a thing of shame, rather than an outlet of sexual tension and add to tht its fun too:P

fun fact: most toddlers masturbate without even knowing wht they r doing (obviously they r incapable of ejaculation at tht stage in their lives)

how much is too much ? are u addicted to it? shud u be guilty? can u hurt urself? how old shud u be? any questions u might have had will be answered from this link

The Ultimate Male Masturbation Resource an excellent resource for all ur self pleasure inquirires

masturbation in women is deemed essential by many relationship counsellors so tht women can explore their sexuality and find whts fun for them and whts not, (this due to the fact tht female genatalia are very complicated indeed), thus it is often advisable for women specially to masturbate so as they can be less stressed and be a better lover to their significant other



and a parting note: i think wht some ppl are brought up to believe is tht sex and evrything related to it is bad period.....i ask of them why so...........why is god's gift of healthy sexuality to be repressed? who the hell's benefitting from this?
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There are two kinds of people in this world:

a) people who masturbate
b) people who are in denial
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