Love! Does it really Excist?

love is not itself a feeling.
emotion caring, trust, commitment if u all put together then make something.
otherwise only love is an illusion.

	Quote:			Originally Posted by RonoH
	Love? Where did that come in between your siblings and parents? There is no love. It's all your need and being used to them. By born we are selfish. We do things to make our selves happy. You make some one happy, that is cause you like seeing that person happy and by seeing him/her happy you become happy too. If your parents didn't provide you with food and provision....would you like them? Would you have the so called LOVE for them? It's called natural instict... thats how society stayed together, we are social animals..Gorillas stays together too...wolves stay in a pack, natural instict, its natural.. normal fact that lies in ur bloody genes. Family? Family is the basic unit of sociey, we are made to be social.....so you become accustomed to it. You grew up with them, you respect them. So for example, If u were adopted, you would have been with another family, u would have brothers and sisters there. So you'd become used to them too. When they are happy you'd feel happy too. If they were hurt you would feel hurt too, no? Reason? Its a natural thing cause, you are so used to seeing them with you. You like seeing them happy and when they are sad it does not feel right. We humans don't like changes. People are sensitive to changes. Its natural to feel like that. If you stay friends with one person for a long time you feel things like that person too. So where does the love come from? It's not love!

Ok RonoH, If it's not Love then what's it??

God has created us with so much complexities, one of them is our emotions and feelings.When a person gets hurt they feel pain, when the wound is nurtured it feels pleasant. We all know that emotions are controlled by your brains and hormones, and love is nothing more then a feeling. There are parts in human brain that controls the feeling of love. If the part is damaged , will result in severe emotional damage..means there wont be any LOVE... so much for magical ever after aye?


Love is nothing but chemical reactions in our body... recent science says that when we see some one we are sexually attracted to our bodies respond by releasing neurochemicals that can leave us spluttering, incoherent and breathless.. Our body is a huge mix of chemicals that speed up our heart rate, give us sweaty palms, make our cheeks flush. The chemicals responsible for this thing called Love are all originally released in the brain and have a knock on effect across the whole body.


So in the end what is love? It is nothing more then the Stimulation of chemicals in our head.

roh
Your grounds are against your stance..! If you believe feeling exist then you also believe in love... Because love is not a thing but a word to describe feelings etc..!

Please someone come forward with something debatable... I would love to debate about the existence of love..!!!!!!

tumi ki Science er sathe Love er relations kujcho?

Mina...No I am not, it's just a plain debate, and as far as I'm concerned...I have no opponent and no post to continue the purpose of the debate.

I just explained the truth and reality of the term called Love that is over rated every where. Love is nothing but a mere result, that is a combination of some facts and chemicals.

Masked man: ekla ekla post korte korte ektu off side e chole gechilam ar ki.




To be continued.....Out of time!

It's just a reply to ronoK's post. Hope you have your answer!

I believe love exists but at the same time i believe that i need to have money, nice car, i need to use expensice cologne and all you have mentioned to make a girl like me...at the same time i would like to see my love doing the same for me, i would like to see her hard work to make me fall for her..i also believe that this comes naturally..its an instinct. this is how love works...you need to do silly thing to make a girl like you and than you try hard to make your likeness a pleasant feeling for yourself and than like and love becomes one thing. rono all you are trying to do is you are trying to change the defination of love. and it might be true that your new defined love might not exist in this world but my defination, my type of love does.. and its fragile but its everywhere..