[tamchow]

yeah but ur misunderstanding wat boiragi bro is sayin.. he is saying dat there are many kids who actually do wat dat poem is saying....
n yess i do agree wat comes round goes around...

[Megha]

Oh ma bad...I didn't look at it tht way,I only seen it personally but now tht u mention it, yes it is like tht for alot of kids in bd.

[BoIRaGi]

	Quote:			Originally Posted by Megha
	Oh ma bad...I didn't look at it tht way,I only seen it personally but now tht u mention it, yes it is like tht for alot of kids in bd.

Actually i do understand y pplz misunderstood me .... its just coz of useing the word " YOU" ..... no one realized wot i was trying to say and took it personallY - but...... acctually i mean it in general ... not " U " the person reading the thread.

[keykhal]

Let me share a story with you.....It will tell you everything How I feel.

After 21 years of marriage, my wife wanted me to take another woman
out to dinner and a movie. She said I love you but I know this other
woman loves you and would love to spend some time with you.

The other woman that my wife wanted me to visit was my MOTHER, who has
been a widow for 19 years, but the demands of my work and my three
children had made it possible to visit her only occasionally.

That night I called to invite her to go out for dinner and a movie.

"What's wrong, are you well," she asked? My mother is the type of
woman who suspects that a late night call or a surprise invitation is
a sign of bad news.

"I thought that it would be pleasant to be with you," I responded.
"Just the two of us."

She thought about it for a moment, and then said, "I would like that
very much."

That Friday after work, as I drove over to pick her up I was a bit
nervous. When I arrived at her house, I noticed that she, too, seemed
to be nervous about our date. She waited in the door with her coat on.
She had curled her hair and was wearing the dress that she had worn to
celebrate her last wedding anniversary.

She smiled from a face that was as radiant as an angel's.

"I told my friends that I was going to go out with my son, and they
were impressed, "she said, as she got into the car. "They can't wait
to hear about our
meeting". We went to a restaurant that, although not elegant, was very
nice and cozy. My mother took my arm as if she were the First Lady.
After we sat down,
I had to read the menu. Half way through the entries, I lifted my eyes
and saw Mom sitting there staring at me. A nostalgic smile was on her
lips

"It was I who used to have to read the menu when you were small," she said.

"Then it's time that you relax and let me return the favour," I responded.

During the dinner, we had an agreeable conversation - nothing
extraordinary, but catching up on recent events of each other's life.
We talked so much that we
missed the movie.

As we arrived at her house later, she said, "I'll go out with you
again, but only if you let me invite you." I agreed.

"How was your dinner date?" asked my wife when I got home. "Very nice.
Much more so than I could have imagined," I answered.

A few days later, my mother died of a massive heart attack. It
happened so suddenly that I did not get to do anything for her.

Some time later, I received an envelope with a copy of a restaurant
receipt from the same place mother and I had dined.

An attached note said: "I paid this bill in advance. I wasn't sure
that I could be there; but nevertheless, I paid for two plates - one
for you and the other for your wife. You will never know what that
night meant for me. I love you, son."

At that moment, I understood the importance of saying in time: "I LOVE
YOU!" and to give our loved ones the time that they deserve. Nothing
in life is more
important than God and your family. Give them the time they deserve,
because these things cannot be put off till "some other time."

Pass this along to everyone with an aging parent, to a child, to an
adult, to anyone with a parent. Here's hoping today is better than
yesterday and tomorrow

[BoIRaGi]

OMG ........... KEYKHAL dosto ............. wot ve u posted man ......... it touched ma heart directly ....... U made me down bro ........ newayz .... tnkx for sharing dis awesome story.

[tamchow]

keykhal bro that was really emotional.. it made me tearful.. but thanx for sharing..

[BlackskY]

keykhal bro. its really makes me emotional n worried 'bout my self. i don wanna be dat "YOU" wich is mentiond in da poem. i don wanna let dem go dis way. I LOVE THEM very very very....much ( i cant xpress by words). day r da liv lyn ob mine. luv u mum, luv u dad....

n da poem of BoIRaGi......bro is also touching... thanx

[Rayan]

Keykhal jeta likhse sheta true ..parents like that shuld be treated well

[mina]

keykhal, story ta porechilam....bhishon touchy...

proshno holo koijon eibhabe care kore shomoi niye chinta kori amader ma, babar shommondhe. amra to koto anondo kore bondhuder niye baire jaua kichu gift kina jonmodiner, anniversary, etc etc kokhono ma ebon baba ke kichu kine di occassion chara, moner moddek okhono knock o korena...it's to think for them.

[BoIRaGi]

etai to amader (beshr vag manush er) boro dosh ..... amra sob dike dekhi but ma baba chara ... khub simple karon .... banglay ekta probad ache na ? --- " dat thakte dater mullo bujhe na " ... thik se rokom !!