March 24th, 2008, 10:49 PM
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1. Are you a Mr/Ms 'Yes Yes' Person (obidient,who always agrees) to your close ones? If your answer is NO then check the next questions.
- agree meaning? ki shommondhe agree? je kono bishoye? ummm, jodi amar sathe kotha na mile othoba decision tahole to ami "no" bole thaki. tobe eita bishoyer upor depend kore.
2. Do you feel its more difficult to say NO to the closer ones than any third person?
- ummm, again bishoy er upor nirbhor kore. ummm, tobe tomar proshner uttor dite hole, yes closer ones ke NO bolte kosto lage.
3. Do you think twice or more when you say a NO to your closed ones? Or you say whatever you feel at first instant.
- khali twice bole, amar mukh diye no ta ashte onekhon shomoi lage. bises kore apon jon.
4. Do you phrase/rephrase differently, make the statement light/lighter soft/softer (than the actual hardness of the disagreement) when you say a NO to your close ones? If yes How you try to make softer.
- No, jokhoni boli ekta reason to thakbei. r shei reason jetai hok na keno amar shundor awaj diye r o soft korar chesta kori.  jodi ador deya jai to ador dei...LOL
5. Do you think what will be the reactions from the other end after you say a NO, and have a mental preparation to handle the reactions before you say the NO? Or
you try to explain whatever you feel and you dont feel any need to take any mental preparation to handle the future reactions, because you have the confidence to handle those reactions.
- he shob shomoi mental preparation jodio thakena. tobe amar jeta shotik lage shetai boli. jodi poshtai to abar sorry bole yes boli. grrrr i hate my self. ami no bole onek shomoi regret kori. je keno ei kaj ta korlam. erpor abar kache jeye sorry bole yes boli onek shomoi jodio late hoye jai tobuo i try to make it up.
ashole ami shob shomoi chesta kori chinta korte no bolle porobortite amar ki dhekte hobe. onek shomoi jodio chinta korina. lol mood er upor o depend kore.
6. Are you afraid of saying a NO to a group of people?
- na bhoi paina. kintu solid reason thakle amar no bola ke backup korar jonno i just say it.
7. What are the thoughts you make before saying a NO to a group of people.
- ummm, thoughts.....ora ki proshno korte pare ta mentally prepared kore rakhi jodi shobar mind read kora possible na. kintu common gulo mathai rakhi. tobe ami group ke bhalo bujhate pari. jodi ami "no" bole thaki ora disagree kore ami obosshoi oder disagree bujhar chesta kori. r jodi prove kore ami wrong tahole i change my decision with the solid logic.
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